緣份是找到包容你的人

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緣份是找到包容你的人                                                 
                                                                          
     有一個男人為了參加第二天的小學同學會,                               
     特地上街買一條新長褲。                                               
     他回家穿上後,卻發覺長度多了十公分。                                 
                                                                          
     於是請求媽媽替他改。                                                 
     媽媽說,身體不舒服,想早一點休息,今晚不想改。                        
                                                                          
     於是改請求太太替他改。                                               
     太太說,還有許多家事要做,今晚沒有時間改。                           
                                                                          
     於是改請求女兒替他改。                                               
     女兒說,今晚跟男朋友約好去跳舞,沒有時間改。                         
                                                                          
     他想想,既然如此,明天穿舊的長褲去同學會也可以!                     
                                                                          
     當天晚上,他媽媽心想:                                               
     「兒子平時對我很孝順,他開口要求總不好拒絕他。」                     
     於是,起來替兒子改長褲,剪短了十公分。                               
                                                                          
     他太太稍晚做完家事心想:                                             
     「老公平時很有耐心,今天他是不會縫針線才開口要求,總不好拒絕他。」   
     於是替先生改長褲,剪短了十公分。                                     
                                                                          
     他女兒晚上回來:                                                     
     「爸爸不阻止我去跳舞,實在是開明的老爸,今天實在應該替他修改長褲。」 
     於是替爸爸改長褲,剪短了十公分。  
                                                                          
     第二天早上,三個女人分別告訴男主人此事。                             
                                                                          
     他一試長褲,已經變成吊腳褲了。                                       
     他的反應是......哈哈一笑,說:                                       
     「我一定要穿去給同學看,告訴他們,                                   
     我的媽媽、太太、和女兒對我多好。」                                   
                                                                          
     結果,老同學們一致稱讚他家庭經營成功。                               
     他的媽媽、太太、和女兒也都很高興。                                   
                                                                          
     如果您是故事中的男人或女人,當下您會做何反應?                       
     「哈哈一笑」抑或「破口大罵」?                                       
                                                                          
     人,面對外人時,總是可以表現得雍容大肚、心平氣和,                   
     但面對自己最親近的家人,                                              
      卻往往一點小事就足以皺起眉頭,甚至出言相傷。                         
                                                                          
     如果形容人類是一種                                                   
     「出門高E.Q,回家低E.Q」的動物,我想一點兒也不誇張,                 
                                                                          
     多拿出一點耐心與幽默感給家人吧!                                     
     否則您自己也不會快樂,不是嗎?